Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
ALAIN DE BOTTONYou have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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