Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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