Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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