The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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