The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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