We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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