Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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