I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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