Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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