One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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