As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTo one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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