When leaders lead in ways that people’s brains can follow, good results follow as well.
HENRY CLOUDDating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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Everything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something’s time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything that is alive requires pruning as well, which is a great metaphor for endings.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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