If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
HENRY CLOUDTrue intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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The mature person meets the demands of life, while the immature person demands that life meet her demands.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Things don’t change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
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When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform, sends fuel to the brain.
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