We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
TARA BRACHWhen we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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