Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
PEMA CHODRONThe future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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