Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
PEMA CHODRONInner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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If you follow your heart, you’re going to find that it is often extremely inconvenient.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior’s world.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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