The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
PEMA CHODRONYou build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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All situations teach you, and often it’s the tough ones that teach you best.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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