We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Being satisfied with what we already have is a magical golden key to being alive in a full, unrestricted, and inspired way.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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