Everybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
IYANLA VANZANTYou set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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I am the one I have been looking for.
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When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
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Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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It is not your duty or responsibility to change the minds of other people. The nature of their thinking is advanced or limited by their experience. In your presence, they have an opportunity to learn about you and, perhaps, to grow.
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
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Every day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
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Everything you have done and been through is valuable and important. In order to be who you are, to know what you know, to be where you are in this moment, you needed to go through what you went through.
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Change doesn’t have to be hard, and healing doesn’t have to hurt. Surely by now you know that every thing happens for a reason! There is something better awaiting you on the other side of this.
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When the time comes for you to make a change or to grow, the universe will make you so uncomfortable you will eventually have no choice.
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Give yourself permission to smile a lot today. In fact, why not make it a habit!
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You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
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Sometimes you have to lose everything in order to gain yourself.
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If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
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