We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
IYANLA VANZANTWe set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
IYANLA VANZANTI am the one I have been looking for.
IYANLA VANZANTWhen you stand and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else.
IYANLA VANZANTIt takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control.
IYANLA VANZANTIt’s important that we share our experiences with other people. Your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else. When you tell your story, you free yourself and give other people permission to acknowledge their own story.
IYANLA VANZANTWhen you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
IYANLA VANZANTIf someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
IYANLA VANZANTTo honor life, we must be willing to grow through what we don’t know yet, and outgrow what we know no longer fits us. We must be willing to give in to the process, moment by moment, realizing a new plot may be unfolding.
IYANLA VANZANTBefore you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren’t.
IYANLA VANZANTIf you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
IYANLA VANZANTYou can direct the outcome of any situation you face through the power of thought. Keep your thoughts focused on the best possible outcome for everyone involved and never allow yourself to be pushed where you don’t choose to be.
IYANLA VANZANTThe only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life.
IYANLA VANZANTBe patient when it seems things are not going right and may never be right again. Accept that what is yours will come to you in the right way at just the right moment.
IYANLA VANZANTLives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.
IYANLA VANZANTSpeak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure- put a period to- those experiences that you don’t want to carry on forever and ever. Use commas in those places where you’re still growing and use exclamation points at the end of every lesson.
IYANLA VANZANTEverybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
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