We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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