Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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