Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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