I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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