God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
TUTU DESMONDOur maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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