Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
TUTU DESMONDDiscovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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