When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
TARA BRACHIn a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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Through the sacred art of pausing, we develop the capacity to stop hiding, to stop running away from our experience. We begin to trust in our natural intelligence, in our naturally wise heart, in our capacity to open to whatever arises.
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When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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There is something wonderfully bold and liberating about saying yes to our entire imperfect and messy life.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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