An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
SYDNEY J. HARRISEvery rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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