Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMore trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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This is a lesson mankind has not yet learned. We identify, and stratify, and treat persons largely on the basis of their accidental (physical) characteristics, which have no deeper meaning.
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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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