Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
SYDNEY J. HARRISTake away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Agnosticism is a perfectly respectable and tenable philosophical position; it is not dogmatic and makes no pronouncements about the ultimate truths of the universe. It remains open to evidence and persuasion; lacking faith, it nevertheless does not deride faith.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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Knowledge fills a large brain; it merely inflates a small one.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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