We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNever let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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There is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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More trouble is caused in this world by indiscreet answers than by indiscreet questions.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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Middle Age is that perplexing time of life when we hear two voices calling us, one saying, ‘Why not?’ and the other, ‘Why bother?’
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The art of living consists in knowing which impulses to obey and which must be made to obey.
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As the horsepower in modern automobiles steadily rises, the congestion of traffic steadily lowers the average possible speed of your car. This is known as Progress.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Never let your fears be the boundaries of your dreams. Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Agnosticism is a perfectly respectable and tenable philosophical position; it is not dogmatic and makes no pronouncements about the ultimate truths of the universe. It remains open to evidence and persuasion; lacking faith, it nevertheless does not deride faith.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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Every morning I take out my bankbook, stare at it, shudder – and turn quickly to my typewriter.
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Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
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