Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISMany married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Skepticism is not an end in itself; it is a tool for the discovery of truths.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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The world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Any philosophy that can be put in a nutshell belongs there.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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