Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThe world has always been betrayed by decent men with bad ideals.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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Real loneliness consists not in being alone, but in being with the wrong person, in the suffocating darkness of a room in which no deep communication is possible.
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The truest test of independent judgment is being able to dislike someone who admires us, and to admire someone who dislikes us.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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Why do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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Happiness is a direction, not a place.
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