People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
SYDNEY J. HARRISWhy do most Americans look up to education and down upon educated people?
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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A loser says that’s the way it’s always been done. A winner says there ought to be a better way.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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A winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
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And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Almost every man looks more so in a belted trench coat.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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There are always too many Democratic congressmen, too many Republican congressmen, and never enough U.S. congressmen.
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The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Love makes everything lovely; hate concentrates itself on the object of its hatred.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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The founder of every creed from Jesus Christ to Karl Marx, would be appalled to return to earth and see what has been made of that creed, not by its enemies, but by its most devoted adherents.
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People who think they’re generous to a fault usually think that’s their only fault.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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