We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
SYDNEY J. HARRISEvery rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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Nothing is as easy to make as a promise this winter to do something next summer; this is how commencement speakers are caught.
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The best thing you can give children, next to good habits, are good memories.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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The greatest enemy of progress is not stagnation, but false progress.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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Enemies, as well as lovers, come to resemble each other over a period of time.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Ignorance per se is not nearly as dangerous as ignorance of ignorance.
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