Forge in the smithy of your soul.
ROLLO MAYSo courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
More Rollo May Quotes
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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When I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence/
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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It is amazing how many hints and guides and intuitions for living come to the sensitive person who has ears to hear what his body is saying.
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