The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
ROLLO MAYThis is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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This personal freedom to think and feel and speak authentically and to be conscious of so doing is the quality that distinguishes us as human.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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