Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
ROLLO MAYThis is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
More Rollo May Quotes
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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Humor is the healthy way of feeling “distance” between one’s self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one’s problem with perspective.
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In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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