It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
ROLLO MAYIf you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
More Rollo May Quotes
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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