Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
ROLLO MAYScience, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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