I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
ROLLO MAYEvery human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, “This is me and the world be damned!” Leaders have always been the ones to stand against the society – Socrates, Christ, Freud, all the way down the line.
More Rollo May Quotes
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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A myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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