It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
ROLLO MAYA myth is a way of making sense in a senseless world. Myths are narrative patterns that give significance to our existence.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
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To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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Mass communication–wonder as it may be technologically and something to be appreciated and valued–presents us wit a serious daner, the danger of conformism, due to the fact that we all view the same things at the same time in all the cities of the country. (p. 73)
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Forge in the smithy of your soul.
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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