There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.
PEMA CHODRONOne of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Openness doesn’t come from resisting our fears but rather from getting to know them well.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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