As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
PEMA CHODRONWe can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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