Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
IYANLA VANZANTLove people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Their issues are not your issues.
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Listen for the instruction, instead of begging for the direction.
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You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
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Give yourself permission to smile a lot today. In fact, why not make it a habit!
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If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
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Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control.
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You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
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Speak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure- put a period to- those experiences that you don’t want to carry on forever and ever. Use commas in those places where you’re still growing and use exclamation points at the end of every lesson.
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Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
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Criticism does not make you smarter or better than the one you are criticizing. In fact, the stuff you are critical of in others is the same stuff you don’t like about yourself.
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I am the one I have been looking for.
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don’t do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.
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