If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
IYANLA VANZANTGratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
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Life doesn’t actually knock you down. It does, however, provide you with many opportunities to evaluate your standing in life: what you stand on, what you stand for, how you stand within yourself and for yourself.
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Everybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
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You do not have to love what is going on in your life, but you must accept that it, whatever it is, is going on. As long as you do not accept reality, you are powerless to define the role you will play.
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Why do we hold onto negativity? For some reason, we believe that others are affected by our experience of remaining upset, hurt or angry. Holding on to pain, anger, guilt or shame is the glue that binds us to the situation we want to escape.
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Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
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We all want to be liked, loved, or needed. That is fine. What is not fine is what we are willing to do to make sure we are liked, or loved or needed. When we make the needs and wants of others a priority in our lives, we devalue ourselves.
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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Life will let you get away with something for a while, but sooner or later, you will pay the price. Everything you do in life causes the effects that you experience. When you get the bill, be prepared to pay.
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Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
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When was the last time you thanked you for always being there for you? Self appreciation soothes an aching soul.
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When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
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When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
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