It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control.
IYANLA VANZANTInstead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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Change doesn’t have to be hard, and healing doesn’t have to hurt. Surely by now you know that every thing happens for a reason! There is something better awaiting you on the other side of this.
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I am the one I have been looking for.
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Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
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Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now.
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Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.
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Nothing destroys self-worth, self-acceptance and self-love faster than denying what you feel. Without feelings, you would not know where you are in life. Nor would you know what areas you need to work on. Honor your feelings. Allow yourself to feel them.
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Everything you have done and been through is valuable and important. In order to be who you are, to know what you know, to be where you are in this moment, you needed to go through what you went through.
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When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
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To honor life, we must be willing to grow through what we don’t know yet, and outgrow what we know no longer fits us. We must be willing to give in to the process, moment by moment, realizing a new plot may be unfolding.
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Sometimes you have to lose everything in order to gain yourself.
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Education does not take place when you learn something you did not know before. Education is your ability to use what you have learned to be better today than you were yesterday.
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Everything we experience-no matter how unpleasant-comes into our lives to teach us something.
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Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change.
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Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
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We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
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