I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
IRVIN D. YALOM… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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One reason patients are reluctant to work in a therapy group is they fear that things will go too far, that the powerful therapist or the collective group might coerce them to lose control–to say or think or feel things that will be catastrophic.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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