When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
IRVIN D. YALOMLife as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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We project ourselves into the future through our children; we grow rich, famous, ever larger; we develop compulsive protective rituals; or we embrace an impregnable belief in an ultimate rescuer.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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A free man who lives among the ignorant strives as far as he can to avoid their favors. A free man acts honestly, not deceptively.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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