Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
IRVIN D. YALOMSome sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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