I must stop him from being one of those who call themselves good because they have no claws.
IRVIN D. YALOMDespite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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It’s not easy to live every moment wholly aware of death. It’s like trying to stare the sun in the face: you can stand only so much of it. Because we cannot live frozen in fear, we generate methods to soften death’s terror.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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