Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
IRVIN D. YALOMDespite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
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This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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If you want to choose the pleasure of growth, prepare yourself for some pain.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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Were not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you examine the inner world, how you examine your dreams.
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There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.
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If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
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