The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Death anxiety is the mother of all religions, which, in one way or another, attempt to temper the anguish of our finitude.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Specialness as a primary mode of death transcendence takes a number of other maladaptive forms.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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