If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
HENRY CLOUDThe physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Leave your pride, ego, and narcissism somewhere else. Reactions from those parts of you will reinforce your children’s most primitive fears.
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If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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Whatever’s happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don’t treat it like it’s the whole story. Keep writing the story.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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The human heart will seek to be known, understood, and connected with above all else. If you do not connect, the ones you care about will find someone who will.
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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Good pain is pain in the service of a purpose. Bad pain is pain endured because we are resisting a needed growth step.
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To rescue people from the natural consequences of their behavior is to render them powerless.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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Faith goes beyond reason. It goes beyond what you can see. But it is as real as anything you can touch or feel.
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Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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