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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

Henry Cloud

Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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Boundary Essential Structure Thrive
The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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Amount Love Present Relationship Truth
Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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Date Finding Life
True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Built Disagree Freedom Intimacy True
Be Hard on the issue, Soft on the person.
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Issues Person Problem Relationship Soft
Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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Existence Freedom Love Operation Responsibility
Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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Anand Thakur
We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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Ourselves Talk Thinking
The sad thing is that many of us come to Christ because we are sinners, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to pretend that we are not!
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Live Ourselves Pretend Sadness Sin
The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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Anand Thakur
Dating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
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Date People Relationship Way
Encourage literally came from “in courage.” The courage is put “into” you from outside. Our character and abilities grow through internalizing from others what we do not possess in ourselves.
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Character Courage Encouragement Growth Ourselves Possession
Some goals are not going to fulfill you. Choose goals that you value and care about.
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Anand Thakur
If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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Follow Narcissism People Togetherness Trust
In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
HENRY CLOUD

Anand Thakur
If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
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Attitude Build Communication Culture Expectation Honesty Performance

In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

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