Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
HENRY CLOUDDating is primarily a numbers game. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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A person who hasn’t grieved a significant loss has unfinished business inside and can cause others great grief as a result.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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Spouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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Who a person is will ultimately determine if their brains, talents, competencies, energy, effort, deal-making abilities, and opportunities will succeed.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
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To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships.
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