Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
HENRY CLOUDSpouses in healthy relationships cherish each other’s space and are champions of each other’s causes.
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Christianity is not about morality. It’s about reality.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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For someone’s character to grow, it has to be free from internal attack. Falling down never stopped children from developing. But getting yelled at, criticized, and put down can stop them for life.
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If you want to become healthy, you have to surround yourself with a group of people that are getting healthy and you have to be connected to a community that is doing what you want to do.
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Successful people stick to what they are good at and find ways to make that larger.
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Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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The business of church is ultimately people. You’re trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
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In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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Being right can never compete with doing well.
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I’m not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
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